Everyone wants to be in relationships, but no one wants to work through the ups and downs. Love isn’t easy like everyone seems to think nowadays… You can’t love someone if you can’t accept him or her at their worst and best. So here are the 10 reasons why relationships don’t work anymore.
1) Fighting over everything rather than talking problems out.
Fights are going to happen whether you’re happy or not in a relationship. It’s just part of love and human nature. But it’s important to cool down, and then sit down and talk to each other. Talking things out is the BEST thing you can do.
2) Waiting until things get too bad before talking to each other.
You should NEVER let things get bottled up because it’s only going to explode and make everything worse. It’s easy to think your significant other is only going to get mad or not listen. But how will you know if you don’t even try? Maybe, this one time will work and everything will be great again.
3) It’s all about he said, she said game.
You know the whole blaming each other thing you do when you’re talking to others about the problems in your relationship. Well, every story has more than one side. You know for a fact both of you are making each other look bad because you’re mad each other. He said she said games must stop if you want a relationship.
4) Never let things stay in the past.
Let it go! Let it go!
It’s so unhealthy to hold on the past. You’re never going to move forward in a relationship if you’re stuck on what happened months ago. You must talk than work on letting things go. You’ll be so much happier with each other.
5) The couple deciding to take too many breaks from each other.