Every woman on this planet wants to be loved. It’s simple right? We all think that once we find the man of our dreams that’s when our life will 100 percent perfect and happy. The problem with this mindset though, is it leaves women feeling inadequate on their own. Like the happiness they make for themselves isn’t “enough” when the truth is, IT IS! You do not need a man to be completely happy and here are 5 reasons why.
Love can come from anyone, including yourself
You don’t need someone else to love you to be completely happy. You just need yourself. The phrase making sure you can love yourself first is so important. Because if you don’t love who you are, mistakes, looks, intelligence and everything else. How can you love someone else unconditionally?
Love starts with you. It starts with what you tell yourself every day and how hard you work every day. That’s where happiness comes from. It doesn’t start with someone other than yourself. And it’s important to remember that you can be happy, alone, but you have to make that effort, no one else can.
You know who you are and what you like
Happiness is something you control. Well, every emotion is. No one else can make us feel a certain way unless we let them. Which also means we have full control to wake up every day and decide it’s going to be a great one or a bad one. Of course, sometimes it’s really hard. When someone hurts you, you feel every ounce of that pain. And even though we control our emotions it’s important to feel them!
It’s important to feel what it’s like to be hurt as well as happy. Because these feelings make you who you are. They help you grow and understand what life is all about. But they also help you learn how to rely on yourself to make you happy and no one else. It helps you be less disappointed because you can always count on yourself to be there, even if you make bad decisions.
Your wants and your needs come first without a significant other