Oh baby, that’s it…
It’s a wide known fact that women don’t always have an orgasm every time they have sex. There are a number of reasons as to why they don’t orgasm every time but we won’t delve into that now. We don’t always let our men know that we didn’t orgasm. We’d rather let them sleep at night knowing they are sex gods and they always make us shudder with orgasms (yes, I know that part of the problem). Here are a few things guys do in bed that make us fake it.
- Horrible foreplay
Some guys only need you to brush your lips against theirs to get a hard on. If only it were that easy for women to get turned on. What guys need to understand is that we are not light bulbs such that when you need to turn us on, all you need to do is flick a switch.
That’s not how it works. Women need foreplay…plenty of foreplay. It shouldn’t last less than fifteen minutes. And it has to be good, not fumbling around. But some men are too lazy for foreplay so it’s just better to fake it and get it over and done with.
- They never bother to know what we want in bed
Arrogance is what makes some men think they are sex gods. They think that if they touch a woman’s breasts a little, maybe pinch the nipples a little harder then she’ll be turned on. Well, that technique might work for some women but it doesn’t work for all. Women are different and want different things in bed.
- They make weird sex requests
You know many woman don’t like anal so why bring it up when we are in the middle of having sex? “Oh, baby, can I stick it in the other hole?”
If you have a weird and disgusting sex request like a hot carl (you might want to Google that if you don’t know what it is) then ask for it after sex so we can tell you a big fat NO.
A guy has to study his woman in order to know if she likes certain things in bed or not. This way, any requests he makes won’t turn her off.
- Men who don’t know how to use their junk
Okay, so you got a big dick but what can you do with it? Just because you are well endowed, doesn’t mean you can make a woman orgasm. There are plenty of women out there who can testify that size doesn’t matter. What’s the point of having a huge member if all you will do with it is hurt the woman with it? We can tighten our muscles a little bit, mourn a little bit and shudder a little bit to make the guy think we’ve had an orgasm just so that we don’t have to endure the pain any more.
- They make us uncomfortable
Okay, most women aren’t confident about their bodies but guys can make it worse by pin pointing our flaws. So we have stretch marks and a bit of cellulite…you don’t really have to point that out now do you? If a guy is going to go down on us, he doesn’t have to exclaim how different our vajayjay looks from any other girls he’s gone down on. And if we know we take too long to orgasm, we might just fake it.
- Guys who always finish first
As much as we’d like it if we all had an orgasm simultaneously, this rarely happens. A real gentleman let’s his lady go first, even in bed. There are many ways for guys to stall an orgasm…like pulling out and going down on your woman. It’s always disappointing when a guy doesn’t last long and we have to fake it to make him feel like he made us orgasm too.
- Guys who try too hard
Okay, we get it, you want to make us orgasm so that you can say you are a stud or a king in bed or whatever. But for most women, it’s not about the orgasm. Sometimes, it’s all about the journey towards the orgasm. Women can be satisfied sexually without ever having an orgasm. But most guys think an orgasm is what determines whether the woman enjoyed sex with him. So to make things easier, we just fake it.
A guy’s behavior in bed can force a woman to fake it even if she doesn’t want to. Have you ever faked it? What was your reason?
by Jackie Kalyonge