Okay, so you got a big dick but what can you do with it? Just because you are well endowed, doesn’t mean you can make a woman orgasm. There are plenty of women out there who can testify that size doesn’t matter. What’s the point of having a huge member if all you will do with it is hurt the woman with it? We can tighten our muscles a little bit, mourn a little bit and shudder a little bit to make the guy think we’ve had an orgasm just so that we don’t have to endure the pain any more.
- They make us uncomfortable
Okay, most women aren’t confident about their bodies but guys can make it worse by pin pointing our flaws. So we have stretch marks and a bit of cellulite…you don’t really have to point that out now do you? If a guy is going to go down on us, he doesn’t have to exclaim how different our vajayjay looks from any other girls he’s gone down on. And if we know we take too long to orgasm, we might just fake it.
- Guys who always finish first
As much as we’d like it if we all had an orgasm simultaneously, this rarely happens. A real gentleman let’s his lady go first, even in bed. There are many ways for guys to stall an orgasm…like pulling out and going down on your woman. It’s always disappointing when a guy doesn’t last long and we have to fake it to make him feel like he made us orgasm too.
- Guys who try too hard
Okay, we get it, you want to make us orgasm so that you can say you are a stud or a king in bed or whatever. But for most women, it’s not about the orgasm. Sometimes, it’s all about the journey towards the orgasm. Women can be satisfied sexually without ever having an orgasm. But most guys think an orgasm is what determines whether the woman enjoyed sex with him. So to make things easier, we just fake it.
A guy’s behavior in bed can force a woman to fake it even if she doesn’t want to. Have you ever faked it? What was your reason?
by Jackie Kalyonge