We’ve all been looked at like “poor girl”
when someone finds out that you’re single. The look that says what’s wrong with you? Why don’t you have a man? A lot of people just don’t think it’s possible or even normal to be single and happy.
To avoid that dismaying look, some women will languish in less than satisfying relationships so that they don’t have to say they are single. The good news is that more and more women just don’t give a damn about what you think of their romantic life. And refuse to stay in relationships that are stressful, have no possibility of going to the next level, or are just plain boring, to satisfy someone else.
Here are eight reasons some women remain single:
1. You’re not ready for a commitment
You just aren’t ready to commit. You like the excitement of dating without the pressure of being in a committed relationship. You are upfront with guys so there won’t be any confusion or drama when they don’t hear from you for weeks or months on end. You are happy playing the field and not ready to settle down.
2. You’re focused on your career
While others have a job, you have a career, and it’s important to you to focus on that and go as far as you can in it. Without a steady man in your life, you’re free to work late or weekends if necessary. You can take extended business trips without worrying about a partner. This freedom can lead to promotions, higher pay, and an in with your boss.
3. You don’t like answering to someone