Should I shave my facial hair?
If you find yourself asking this question, then don’t worry as you’re probably not alone. Female face shaving has increasingly drawn attention around the globe as women look for efficient ways to deal with excess facial hair. After all, a good number already shave their legs or pubes on a regular basis, plus a handful of celebrities such as Caroline Manzo, Marilyn Monroe and Kate Somerville have been known to shave their faces. But before you make any decision, it’s important to understand the procedure itself as well as its pros and cons. Read on.
The step by step process for female face shaving
Dampen a clean towel with some warm water and then press it on your face for two minutes or so. This is important for opening the pores as well as softening your hair to ensure a cleaner and less irritating shave. It can also help lower the risk of ingrown hairs. Alternatively, you can shave while in the shower (the hot water will help open those pores)
You should use quality shaving cream rather than soap. Most of the shaving creams available on the market come with anti-inflammatory, skin-protecting and soothing ingredients that not only allow for a clean shave but also minimize irritation and razor burn. If needed, you can look for a product with a feminine scent so the experience doesn’t look so inherently masculine. Simply dispense a small amount, (a quarter size may be enough) of your cream into your hands and gently rub together to obtain lather. Apply all over your face.
Be sure to use a sharp razor and first shave downwards. This will allow you to remove most of the hair as you will be shaving in the direction of hair growth. Moreover, it will help lessen skin irritation and lower the risk of ingrown hairs (which is one thing you need to be very careful about when it comes to face shaving). You can then try to shave upwards a few times to get a close shave.
Benching is when you start dating someone you think may have potential,
but you’re not crazy about them. You’re not sure whether to keep dating them or dump them and move on to the next one. So you keep them in your mental “maybe” folder and “bench” them for later consideration. Keeping in contact just enough so that they think you’re still interested in them.
Ghosting is the act of suddenly stopping all communication with someone you’re dating but no longer wishes to be in a relationship with. This is done in hopes that the person you were dating will “get the hint” and move on without you having to take any further action.
1. With ghosting, people get the message quickly.
No one wants to be ghosted, it’s cowardly, rude and hurtful, but at least you get the message after a week or so. With benching, you could be led on for months.
2. Major ego builder for the bencher.
Let’s be real here — a lot of guys who bench do so because they like the idea of having their own “harem” of women to choose from. They’re looking to stroke their egos at the expense of others’ feeling while also keeping their options open.
3. Unlike ghosting, there’s no reason to bench.
Guys like to tell themselves they’re being honest when they bench a woman. They’re not sneaking around, they haven’t agreed to any commitment, so there shouldn’t be any expectations on the woman’s part. When a man ghosts, they typically do so because they don’t feel comfortable with breakups and want to avoid any drama that might arise from ending a relationship. In other words, because they’re cowards.
4. Both ghosting and benching say a lot about who you are.
It shows that they’re a coward. It indicates that they don’t respect the other person’s feelings. It also proves that the only person they care about is themselves.
How many of these signs do you identify with?
Too often, women don’t recognize the signs of an unhealthy relationship. Sometimes it’s because of their naiveté or worse, being in denial. Signs of a bad relationship can be subtle, something you can brush off as a few bad days, or just going through a rough patch. Fortunately, most signs are as clear as a sunny day; you just have to be willing to see them.
Whatever your reason, no one should ever settle for anything less than a loving and respectful relationship. If any of these toxic red flags apply to you, it’s time to move on – time will not make any of these signs acceptable.
You start doubting your self-worth
No one should ever make you feel like you’re unworthy, especially someone who says they love you. A caring partner should remind you of how much you mean to them and how amazing you are, even if you don’t require the reminders.
You’ve felt unsafe at ANY point
Don’t make excuses like “It was in the heat of the moment,” or tell yourself “It won’t happen again.” You should never, ever feel or be threatened. Physically or verbally.
You have to ask permission
You are not a child. Taking your partner’s thoughts into consideration is fine, but you should be able to do what you think is best without fear of reprisal from your significant other (SO).
You can’t fully be yourself
Trying to be something you’re not, or suppressing certain parts of you is not sustainable. If your SO can’t love all of you, then they sure as hell don’t deserve any of you.
You do whatever it takes to avoid a fight
You want to avoid arguments, so you acquiesce, lie, sneak around, or refuse to address things. You might think you’re helping your relationship, but you’re not. The fear of confrontations or breaking up isn’t reason enough to be passive.
You fight often
What’s the best way to get your ideal brows?
Plucking (tweezing), threading and waxing are the methods used most to get the manicured look you’re going for. While you might want to go with what looks trendy and mainstream, there is a need to have a close look at what each one of these styles give you.
Threading allows for perfect definition
For those who choose to go with this method, it is highly detailed. It allows you to carve out a shape for the brow according to your own preferences, creating a sharp look that stays on for quite a bit and remains very noticeable.
Here, you are handling hairs at a very individual level. You do not deal with a clump of hairs, but working with every single piece until the end, which gives you the flexibility to carve out a sharp finish at the end.
It is fast
With threading, there is not much in the way of intricacies. All that the technician needs to do is move from a single piece of hair to the next. The entire process is much faster than tweezing.
Threading is a very fast process that focuses more on getting things done than actually providing quality. You will therefore find that the hair removal process is rather careless, providing substandard results.
You can choose to go for tweezing services from professionals, but it is not absolutely necessary, because it is a simple enough process to carry out in front of your mirror.
Dating advice can be found everywhere. You can read up on topics in books and online as well as ask friends and family. No matter where you go, you’ll always encounter bad dating advice. Here are four pieces of advice that you’d be smart to ignore.
1. Play dumb to boost his ego
Dumbing yourself down to make anyone else feel smarter is never a good idea. You don’t have to pretend you are any less bright in order to get a boyfriend and keep him. A man who really likes you is going to enjoy having intelligent conversation with you instead of being able to lecture you about all his areas of knowledge. You don’t have to intentionally lose at games or sports either. You can ask him questions about things he knows more about than you. You can ask him to teach you moves or help you improve your running time. You’re not acting dumb, you’re asking for additional information and help.
2. Make him wait before getting intimate
Making a man wait a three dates, three months, or six months before you get intimate doesn’t prove how much he really likes you. You should do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Don’t feel pressured by the man you’re dating to have sex sooner than you’re ready or by friends who tell you that you should wait until the third month of dating to have sex. The decision is yours. If you’re ready after the first date, that’s fine. If it’s your person belief that you should be dating at least a month, that’s fine as well.
3. Play hard to get