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1950’s Women Were Expected to Do WHAT For Husbands!?

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1950’s Women Were Expected to Do WHAT For Husbands!?

While it can be interesting to learn about what past cultures were like for women, learning anything about the 1950’s can be pretty laughable considering just how much time has changed. Some people might joke about wanting women to behave this way again, while women enjoy looking at the retro style clothes, but after hearing all this, we can all hopefully be glad how things have changed.

In May of 1955, Housekeeping Monthly published an article entitled, “The Good Wife’s Guide,” detailing all the ways that a wife should act and how best she can be a partner to her husband and a mother to her children.

Here’s the list below:

1. Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs.Couple Dining

2. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.Lady With Casserole

3. Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. 

Woman Brushing Hair

4. Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it. Lady With Cigarette Holder

5. Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper, etc. and then run a dust cloth over the tables.

Woman Mopping Floor

6. Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

Fireside Chat

7. Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children’s hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes.

Mother Bottle Feeding Baby

8. Children are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.

Little Monsters

9. Be happy to see him. Free him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him. Listen to him.

Pop art kiss

10. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first — remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.

Home For Dinner

11. Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.

Choosing Colors

12. Your goal: Try to make sure your home a place of peace, order and tranquility where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.

Mom Playing Piano

13. Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.

Dismayed Man

14. Don’t complain if he’s late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.

Woman Wondering

15. Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.

Couple Enjoying Magazine

16. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.

Man Relaxing In Easy Chair

17. Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment of integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.

Family Relaxing In Livingroom

18. A good wife always knows her place.

Retro Couple

“Knows her place.” Well that’s not disconcerting at all.

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