People look to enhance their lives by adding the company of a stable, confident and emotionally uncomplicated person. No one wants to be around someone who is constantly giving off negative vibes because of their low self-esteem. Who wants to constantly be on an emotional roller-coaster because their partner lacks confidence and is always jealous or insecure?
Before you can have a successful long-term, healthy relationship, you have to be secure in your own skin. Someone who sees the value of their self-worth will not accept being disrespected by their partner or any other person. Small issues that pose no problem in a relationship between two self-assured people can grow into an erupting volcano when one partner feels insure due to prior experiences.
A partner coming home later than expected, failing to return a phone call or text, talking to a pretty co-worker, or just giving your female friend a compliment, can send someone with low self-esteem through the roof. A woman who is confident and knows her value will not start drama over innocent occurrences.