Women are stronger today than in the past and some men are having a hard time adjusting.
We are more confident, independent, and extremely capable of handling our shit. Strong women have zero tolerance for being disrespected and have no problem voicing their displeasure with your actions when you try to screw them over.
We’re not desperate.
Our motto is “Better single and alone than in a relationship being mistreated.” We know when to walk away without guilt or regrets. Our happiness and peace of mind are worth much more than being able to say “I’m in a relationship.”
We’re not doormats.
A strong woman will sometimes give a guy a second chance. But if you’re expecting third and fourth chances, you’re talking to the wrong woman. We don’t stick around for you to develop a pattern or take us for granted. We have no problem giving and doing our share in the relationship – as long as you’re doing the same.
Our time is valuable.
We know that time is a finite resource and won’t waste it on someone who treats us like dirt, doesn’t make us a priority, or doesn’t add anything positive to our life. Your good looks and expertise in bed will only get you so far with a strong woman.
We don’t like excuses.
Don’t come at us with your bullshit. We have heard the lame excuses before and know when we’re being sold a bill of goods. So if you’re prone to shadiness, or have too many coals in the fire, keep it moving!
You don’t complete me.
I’m amazing all on my own! Strong women don’t look for men to complete them. We are looking for someone to complement our lives. We take pride in being able to provide for or entertain ourselves. No man needed, but we might want one in our life.
Our happiness is important.
We are responsible for our happiness, and we won’t delegate that responsibility to anyone else. So if the guy we’re dating starts to suck the joy out of us – he’s out! We pursue activities and goals that will add to the positive lifestyle we try to live.
We know our worth.
The first step in being a strong woman is knowing that we are valued, that we deserve good things in life. You can’t get a strong woman to accept less when she knows she deserves more. So if you’re trying to run game on a strong woman – you’re not wasting her time – but your own. – Char Brown