Loving them harder won’t make them want to stay; in fact it will only hurt you worse in the long run. It isn’t your fault; your hearts just don’t beat to the same rhythm. You’re never going to be good enough for the person who doesn’t love you. You may give them everything but it’s just going to fall short. It isn’t because you aren’t trying they just don’t see you in the same light. The truth is your love will never be enough for the wrong heart.
Save that for someone who isn’t going to make your relationship feel like work. Save it for someone who is going to accept your love with open arms, someone who just clicks.
There are several realities when this happens. When you’re not the right person for someone your smile isn’t going to be the light in a dark room. Your hand won’t be the one that reaches out & pulls them back in when they get lost. You may see want to see the future when you look in their eyes but they won’t. They are still looking for their forever person.
You will never be good enough for the one that doesn’t see you as the missing piece in their puzzle. The wrong person will have goals and dreams that won’t include you. They won’t put in the effort because they don’t want it to work.
You’ll be the one who is always making all the plans. The one who leans in for the kiss, and the one whose lips will linger longer. You will be the one to bridge the gap in larger spaces, to reach for their hand, with the right words to say. Where you see never ending beautiful fireworks the other person will already picture them as ashes falling to the ground.
You’ll never be enough for them and that’s okay.