You’ve found your soulmate! Or so you thought. But now you’re having doubts.
Betrayal is one of the worst feelings in the world. The loss of trust can have you feeling like you will never believe in love again. Unfortunately, most of us have experienced this feeling. In fact, it’s becoming more common in this dysfunctional social media environment.
So, it’s only natural that we strive to develop defense mechanisms as much as we can to try and protect ourselves from being hurt again. This doesn’t mean distancing yourself from relationships forever, but being cautious after experiencing loss of trust. Here are some signs that might indicate your soulmate is interested in someone else or looking for love elsewhere.
If you see any of these signs, you and your partner seriously need to have an in-depth conversation.
1. Their new habits are hard to explain
This is particularly obvious if you’re living together, but if you notice your partner suddenly developing erratic or strange behaviors, explanations are needed. You have a right to be concerned, especially if tasks that used to take only a few minutes are now taking hours to complete. Don’t ignore your instincts.
2. You feel they no longer want to spend time with you
Do you feel like your partner would rather be someone else when they’re with you? If you’re constantly having that feeling with your soulmate, chances are you aren’t wrong. First of all, an attitude of “hurry up and get this over with” isn’t healthy in a relationship. What is more, it may be a signal that your soulmate is getting bored and looking for romance elsewhere.
3. Eye contact becomes less
Guilty people avoid making eye contact. If you’re used to staring into each other’s eyes loving, but that no longer happens, your partner might be trying to hide the quilt they are feeling. Some people will even start wearing sunglasses to avoid eye contact.
4. There are more fights