Why is this a love trap? Well, apart from money, what else does your man have going on? Is he a great lover, is he emotionally invested in the relationship? Does he keep his promises?
- The handsome man love trap
Outside beauty doesn’t matter, what matters is the beauty inside. Yeah, right! Forget all that. You want a man who will make every woman in the room jealous of you.
Why is this a love trap? Just like the guy with money, what else does Mr. Handsome have going on apart from his looks?
- Emotionally invested love trap
You have invested so much time and effort into your relationship that when your man plays you or disrespects you repeatedly, you willingly forgive him.
Why is this a love trap? Girl, a good relationship is the result of teamwork. Your man should bring 100% into the relationship and so should you. But if you are always investing 100% into the relationship and the man only invests 5%, maybe you should stop dating the same types of guys.
- Mind blowing sex love trap
It’s hard to find someone you can connect with emotionally and have good sex with. So when you find a guy who is good in bed, you hold on to him tight.
Why is this a love trap? Because you can teach someone how to be good in bed but you can’t teach them how to emotionally connect with you. If the two of you don’t connect, then you just don’t connect. Don’t force it.
- The better than nothing love trap
You are afraid of being alone. You believe only a man can make you happy so you jump from one relationship to another because God forbid you ever find yourself alone during the weekend.
Why is this a love trap? You are willing to settle for anything as long as it means you won’t be alone, and you will sacrifice your standards just to have someone in your life.
Can you relate to any of these love traps? Watch out for the next post because we’ll tell you how to get out of a love trap.
by Jackie Kalyonge