You should look for a man who celebrates your success instead of getting jealous or threatened by it. When you are at the office party, and guys start hitting on you, he wouldn’t start acting like a raging idiot because he would know you have limits and boundaries. He knows the last thing you would do is to leave him for some office flirt.
4. He doesn’t mind teaching you and learning from you
Of course, as an alpha female, you like teaching. You are your own boss; a leader. But you also need to be humble and willing to learn from your man. Besides, you don’t know everything.
5. He isn’t afraid to call you out
You might be the head bitch in charge, but when you do some BS, he’s not afraid to tell you. You can scream about your incompetent assistant all you want, but when you start screaming at him, he will call you out. More importantly, he knows how to handle you at your worst.
6. He should have his own goals
The last thing you need in your life is a man without ambition. He shouldn’t just sit there and wait for you to achieve your goals and dreams; he too should be working on his success. He shouldn’t be satisfied being a sidekick to your big life plans.
7. He should be able to handle your assertiveness
Alpha females are not as nurturing or sensitive as we all would like. They are not heartless or robotic either. But for a man to have a successful relationship with an alpha woman, he needs to have some thick skin. In short, he has to be able to handle your blunt nature.
8. He knows when to drop it and when to address it
When a guy knows he is right, he will stand his ground, but when wrong, he will acknowledge it and apologize. He knows that you are strong-willed and there are bound to be differences in opinion from time to time. But he should be smart enough to know which issues to pursue and which ones to drop.